Dr. Frank J. Kinslow has been researching and teaching healing techniques for more than 35 years. He draws from his clinical experience as a chiropractic physician, in-depth studies into Eastern esoteric philosophies and practices, and an ardent love of relativity and quantum physics.
In 2007, the Quantum Entrainment process of instant healing was born out of a personal crisis that left Dr. Kinslow with nowhere to go and nothing to do. Out of this nothing, he was able to create a vibrant and fulfilling life for himself. He began to teach and write with such simplicity and clarity that in just a few years, tens of thousands of people around the world were able to create vibrant and fulfilling lives for themselves just by reading his books.
He continues to write and teach extensively. He resides in Sarasota, Florida, with his wife, Martina.
In our last blog we said your thoughts are like the great variety of life forms that inhabit the ocean. Let’s step out of our ocean analogy for a moment and find out why positive thinking, as it is presently practiced, does not work. We tend to think that negative and positive thoughts are two different conditions of the same perception just like hot and cold are two different conditions of water. If hot water were considered negative and cold water positive then all we have to do is add enough cold water to the hot and it will quickly become cold. Some feel that adding enough positive thoughts to a negative perception will turn it into a positive perception but in reality that model does not work. Those of us who try to overpower a negative perception with positive thoughts are deluding ourselves. It takes a great deal of energy to maintain a positive attitude in a negative situation. It takes virtually no energy at all to perceive a positive situation. In reality a negative perception and a positive perception are not two different conditions of the same perception. In actuality they are two completely different perceptions. They are apples and oranges. Trying to turn apples into oranges by combining the two only makes a mess. Trying to convince yourself that a mess is not a mess is a form of denial that is both damaging and draining.
In later blogs we will devote a good deal more time to the fallacy that positive thinking, and the law of attraction improves our quality of life.
Everything we experience is through pure awareness. Most people don’t even know they have pure awareness much less that it is their essential nature. It is more intimate to us than our families, our jobs, and even our health for without pure awareness we would have none of these things. It is pure awareness that makes it possible for us to feel, to think, to perceive, and to experience life in all its vibrant beauty. Pure awareness is our very essence.
In our daily life pure awareness has remained hidden. It works behind the scenes breathing life into life itself. When we become aware of pure awareness we tune into the actual lifeblood of creation. When we become aware of pure awareness we become like it and the mysteries of life unfold before our very eyes. What’s that mean to you in practical everyday language? It means you will have more energy, more success, more fun, and more love and that is just the tip of the iceberg.
In quantum mechanics pure awareness is loosely analogous to implicate order, the formless non-energy from which all form and energy come. Everything you perceive, raindrops in a puddle, the hum of your refrigerator motor, the reflection of your face in the mirror, every created thing first begins as pure awareness.
Now here’s the problem. Your mind is not interested in pure awareness because it cannot directly perceive it. To the mind pure awareness is nothing. If it cannot perceive pure awareness then it cannot do what minds love to do; identify, analyze, manipulate, and create something new. So your mind is quickly bored with pure awareness the very thing that abolishes boredom. What to do?
Enter Eufeeling! Eufeeling is unique in all creation. It has, so to speak, a foot in both worlds. It is both formless pure awareness and the first beautiful expression of pure awareness in your mind. When you look at the water in an ocean you see that it takes many forms. On the surface there are waves and foam and currents flowing like great rivers. Below the surface there the water exhibits a diverse array of temperatures, densities, and clarity. The surface of the ocean can be very volatile while on the bottom of the ocean the water can be very still. If your mind were an ocean pure awareness would be the water and Eufeeling would be the different forms that water becomes. Your thoughts would be like the great variety of life forms that inhabit the ocean.
Try this simple pure awareness experience…
Look down at your feet
Now look up at the ceiling
What was in your mind from the time you looked at your feet to the time you looked at the ceiling?
Nothing, right? But you were still aware, right? You just had a brief experience of pure awareness!
Now enjoy this extended pure awareness experience:
Quantum Entrainment does not depend on your mind but on your awareness. Do you have awareness? Well of course you do otherwise you would not be reading this blog. You don’t have to synthetically generate your awareness like you do a positive emotion, right? When you are awake you are aware naturally and without effort. So this is our starting point, common everyday awareness.
The next ingredient in this remarkable recipe to remove suffering and increase success is perception. Perception is how you fill your awareness. We perceive through our senses; sight, taste, touch, smell, and hearing. When you see a flower the image of the flower is thrown onto the retina of your eye. The perception of the flower on the retina is changed into electrical impulses which are transmitted to your brain. Your brain translates the electrical impulses into an image of the flower you are looking at. The whole process is automatic and instantaneous.
Perception is how you fill your awareness. In this case you would see the flower but without awareness you will not know that the flower exists. If your eye were a camera then perception would be the procedure of taking the picture, that is, getting the image of the flower through the lens and recorded on the memory card. Awareness would be the light that made the whole process possible. Without light there is effectively no image of the flower and therefore no perception of the flower. As far as you are concerned it does not exist.
There are many shades of awareness. You can be alert, tired, distracted, drugged, etc. If we think of awareness as light then the different kinds of awareness represent different intensities of light. Let’s say that the brightest light possible registers 10 on our “light/awareness” scale. Everyday common consciousness would register 4 or 5 on our scale of 0 to 10. This would be like using your camera to take a picture outdoors on a cloudy day. Depending on the degree of fatigue tired awareness would be a 2 or 3. This would be like taking a picture at dusk as the sun is setting. Drugs like alcohol and other depressants would register 0 to 2 and would be like taking a picture at night. A stimulant like caffeine will temporarily push our awareness to 6 or 7 followed by rebound fatigue in the 2 to 3 range. This would be like taking a picture with a flash attachment and then having to recharge the battery.
Quantum Entrainment is a way to perceive the purest awareness, a 10 on our awareness scale. Having the purest awareness is like taking a picture under perfect conditions in full daylight. When we perceive through pure awareness it gives us the truest, most vibrant reflection of life. It frees us from having to struggle to see life clearly. It gives us the best chance for appreciating the world within which we live.
Picture a world where you are following your innermost desires, doing the work that you are naturally drawn to do and love. It dovetails perfectly with your talents and interests. Your work regenerates you rather Than tiring you out. Time flies by almost too quickly. Like the flickering splinters of a lit sparkler, creativity burns within you. You are self-motivated, take pride in your work, and feel like you are a cohesive and contributing part to a grander plan. You are complete. In essence you are living in accord with your natural talents and interests, at one with yourself and your environment.
Now zoom out so that you are looking down on a city of people just like you. They are like you, each a productive and prodigious part of a grander plan. With little conscious effort each soul supports the other joyfully and with selfless purpose. Conflicts still exists but are resolved from a level of creative exuberance, joy, and playfulness. Distorting emotions and aberrant behavior are all but nonexistent. This city is not a place of individual minds and methods and self-serving agendas. It is an entity unto itself. It is alive, a vibrant reflection of the contentment and creativity of its inhabitants.
Now zoom out further so that you are looking down on the whole earth, that liquid blue marble spinning silently, powerfully on its axis. Know that every individual of every city of every country is living in perfect harmony within nature. We all have this vision of Utopia inside us. It came with us when we burst into this world and drew that first blazing breath of life into our lungs. It was there in childhood before we were taught our limitations. Then it was set aside, sequestered in the dungeons within, those dark places where we chain our most animated dreams until they tire. And there they slumber in the darkness waiting. It takes but a single shard of sunlight to scatter the darkness and reawaken even our deepest dreams.
When you become aware of Eufeeling you will find that sunlight already abides within you. This is not something you must acquire. You do not need to train or travel. You already have everything you need to see that light. You need only look in the direction of the sun and memory becomes full reality.
On the Newtonian cause-and-effect level we would say that I did QE for her autistic son. From a quantum mechanical point of view I offered her son the probability of healing. Healing occurred in the best way possible after all other possibilities had been eliminated.
You see, when we think in a linear, cause-and-effect way healing appears to be a simple, single line ending in the result we want. But life is not that simple. Every action and reaction has to be considered from a universal standpoint. We have all seen that B-rated movie where the hero goes back in time and changes one single event, for instance slapping a mosquito. When the time traveler returns to his present he finds it completely unrecognizable. The death of that single mosquito set in motion a complicated chain of events that altered life on every level.
If we do not take into account the effect of every thought, word, and action on every level of creation, for all time, then even the purest intention of love and compassion can have devastating results. Of course this is way outside the possibility of our minds to compute. But fortunately we do not have to. That is Eufeeling’s job and it has been doing it since the first subatomic particle hic-upped into existence to usher in the dawn of time.
Have you ever wondered why our species has made so many miraculous advances and yet individually we still manage to suffer daily doubt, guilt, anger, anxiety, and the like? We have become very adept at getting what we want. Because of our will, imagination, and ability to plan we have out-performed all competing species in the game show of life. We chose door number one and rushed headlong through it never pausing for an instant to wonder what lay behind number two.
The promise of control is the ultimate seduction. However, to continue to get what we want we must exercise ever greater control over our domain. But something has gone terribly awry. The more control we exercise the less control we feel we have. Only in the most superficial sense does taking “control” of our lives mean getting what we want. In reality, what we want is almost never what we need. Oddly enough, the peace and joy and spontaneous beauty we seek is found in letting go. If you want to feel the “cat’s feet” of Carl Sandburg’s Fog on the palm of your hand simply open your hand and keep it still. Grasping at the fog keeps it always just beyond your reach. Grasping for the things we want pushes further away that which we need. Awareness of Eufeeling introduces us what we need. In the end we need turns out to be infinitely more than we could ever want.
I was recently asked by a member the QE Forum, a mother with an autistic child, what effect QE would have on autism. Below is my answer… It may have been a bit more of an answer that she was looking for but better to err on the side of comprehensiveness. Enjoy…
We should not look at QE as being a healing technique. It is a technique to take our awareness from common consciousness through pure awareness to Eufeeling. That is it! We do not do Quantum Entrainment for specific problems be they physical, emotional, financial, spiritual, etc.
“Well Frank,” you say, “You have written often about doing QE for finances, relationships, and the like. What is the difference?”
I have also written time and again that, despite the fact that profound healing does take place around a QE session, QE itself is not a healing technique. The problem is language. We must first find common ground before we can expand and idea, especially one founded on such an abstraction as Eufeeling. Forgive me for any confusion I may have generated in this regard. But this gives us a perfect opportunity to resolve this confusion and learn a little something in the bargain.
When we do Quantum Entrainment we do it for ourselves. That very act creates harmony and healing as a result of our shift in awareness from common consciousness to Eufeeling. Not only are the results of this increased harmony and healing realized within us but it quickly expands to influence our friends, family, and in fact, everyone and everything in our environment. So it does not matter if one has arthritis or autism becoming aware of Eufeeling is the most effective environment you can create for healing to evolve. You see what I mean? When you do QE you spontaneously create the best circumstances for healing to take place no matter what the malady. Now anything you do after QE is going to be more effective. The point is that when we do QE we do it for ourselves with an invitation for others to join us. Any healing that takes place is due to their volition and completely depends on their body/mind/environment. So to be more accurate, we are not doing QE for someone so much as with them.
Here is an example. I once had a mother whose son was autistic and in his early 20s. He was becoming more aggressive and she feared he may hurt himself or others. She asked me to do QE for him. I told her I would do QE with her son in mind. The thought of him was actually an invitation for him to heal. (Interestingly enough the partner does not have to be consciously aware of the application of QE. The invitation is accepted on the level of Eufeeling which is often beyond conscious awareness. This is why we do not need permission to do QE with someone.) After 10 or 12, 20 minute QE sessions the mother reported that her son had responded very favorably.
— End of Part I —
Please Continue With – What You Want May Not Be What You Need (Part II)
You became aware of Self when thoughts shut off. When they started up again you were able to continue observing. Before thoughts, Self was observing Self. After thoughts, Self was still observing Self, only now Self had taken the form of thoughts. Thoughts were formed out of Stillness, the silent Self. Thoughts are things. Other things, trees, stars and cars, are also Self that have taken form. When you observe any form with complete awareness you will find its shimmering essence to be nothing other than You, Eufeeling, the ever-present Self. This is the God-to-God relationship. It does not matter whether you are observing another human, nature or your own personal form of God. When you are Self-aware, aware of Eufeeling, you are God becoming aware of God.
Angels look at humans and just shake their heads. These “lower” beings with muddled, misdirected minds, and vulgar bodies filled with phlegm and gas, are the same beings who can transcend even the most exalted celestial realms to know the Unknowable. The human is unique in this regard. He is capable of experiencing the deepest hell and the highest heaven all in a single lifetime. This gift of extremes opens his awareness to the fullest expression of creation. After all, what does an angel know of suffering? With feet in the mud and head in the heavens, the human awakens to the fullness of creation.
This enlightened soul moves amongst us lightening our load without being burdened himself. He is like the fairest thought drifting above the heaviness that is human. The enlightened soul is free from suffering but his expanded awareness has a price. After the suffering has slipped away there remains a kind of cosmic sadness. His world is beyond all others and yet he is still touched by our suffering. All is perfection save for that chamber of his heart where he holds his love of humanity. His relationship is with the whole, not the parts. He cannot be fully free while others suffer. For him the perfect relationship will not spread its wings and take flight until every cocoon has birthed its butterfly.
Our part in a relationship is this, to take responsibility for our own awareness. The rest will take care of itself. This is a leap of faith for most and reality for the rest. Our partner doesn’t need to stop squeezing the toothpaste from the top of the tube. We need to be aware. That is it. That is how simple it is. The perfect relationship starts and ends with awareness of the Self. When Self-awareness dawns, the binding threads of our cocoon loosen and finally fall away, releasing a fully aware soul into the world.
John M Koller, author and professor of oriental philosophies, bluntly illustrates how man cannot possibly exist separate from his God. He states, “If whatever is is dependent upon another, then any kind of “straight line” causality is ruled out. There are no independent beings that are responsible for the existence of dependent beings. For example, the theistic notion that one absolutely independent being—God—created the rest of what exists, and that created universe depends for its existence upon God, makes no sense…whatever creates is also created, and the process of creating and being created go on simultaneously without beginning or end.”
Through the discriminative eye of science Erwin Schrodinger, one of the founders of quantum mechanics and author of the infamous thought experiment Schrodinger’s Cat, had this to say about the barrier between man and God, “Subject and object are only one. The barrier between them cannot be said to have broken down as a result of recent experience in the physical sciences, for this barrier does not exist.”
And finally, the founder of the doctrine of advaita, exposing the illusory relationship between man and God, these words still inspire a sense of space and undulating impermanence centuries after Shankara spoke them.
Though difference be none, I am of Thee,
Not Thou, O Lord, of me;
For of the sea is verily the Wave,
Not of the Wave the Sea.
Like the assimilation of Newtonian physics by quantum physics, the God-to-God relationship assimilates the other three human-oriented forms of interaction. You see, there is only one possible relationship to be had, and that is God-to-God. The other three are only illusions, divisions for the sake of convenience. A relationship becomes human when the human mind is in charge. It becomes Divine when the mind and the rest of the world are perceived from universality. What is doing the perceiving? Eufeeling, the limitless Self. What is Self? It is unbounded Energy, Intelligence and Love. Self is God. Pure perception is Self-awareness, God becoming aware of God. That is, God becoming aware that all things and nothing is It Self!
When you look at a flower, you are either relating human-to-nature or God-to-God. The only difference is your perception at that moment. If your mind is stuck in common consciousness, then you are interacting with the flower human-to-nature. However, if you are aware of Eufeeling, aware of the stillness that permeates all three, the perceiver, the perceived and the process of perceiving, then God perceives God through the medium of God. That’s all there is to it.
Have you ever noticed a gap in your thinking when no thoughts were there? (If not read The Secret of Instant Healing – The Space Between Your Thoughts.) At first you saw it as a gap, a space between thoughts. Mental content was suspended and only awareness remained. Repeating the experience, the gap got bigger and you recognized that the space was not dead, but vibrantly alive. Then you were faced with a paradox. If you were not thinking and your mind was free of content, then how were you aware that there were no thoughts? You, Pure Awareness were observing you, Pure Existence. Self had become aware of Self. In this single innocent experience, God found God!
[Continued next week - How Does Perception Affect Your Relationship? (Final Part VIII)]
At first glance there are three basic kinds of relationships that humans enjoy. These are human-to-human, human-to-nature and human-to-God relationships. In all three the element that remains the same is the human. It is the human who defines the relationship. Even the human-to-God relationship is defined by the mind of man. A fourth relationship exists and steps beyond the limitations of mind.
The fourth relationship is the God-to-God relationship. As soon as you read “God-to-God” some of you may have experienced an unexpected reaction. It may have been subtle but you may have felt a little isolated or left out or even a little irritated or sad. After all, God-to-God has eliminated the human element, and I am a human. Therefore, I cannot be a part of the God-to-God relationship. Not so. In fact, it is your birthright as a human to live the God-to-God relationship. Actually, you are living it. The trick is to realize it.
If you think I’ve gone “round the bend” on this one then I’m in good company. This perception that man is God has reverberated down through the ages by seers and scientists of every generation.
Christ said, “Where I am there shall also my servant be.” And about this quote Meister Eckhart elucidated, “So thoroughly does the soul become the same being that God is, no less, and this is as true as God is God.”
“Why bother?” you say. Why can’t we just stay to ourselves? That’s a thought born of struggle and conflict produced when relationships are too much work or pain. While there are a few individuals who are truly at home by themselves, most of us are addicted to the touch, the sound, and the warmth of other human beings. Why is that? Why are we drawn so strongly into interactions with others that ultimately prove hurtful and frustrating?
Think on this question awhile. It is important in coming to know lasting peace. What is the reason for relationships? Why do they exist?
Most of us enter a relationship because we think we will get something out of it. Isn’t that so? Depending on the kind of relationship, we may look to realize friendship, protection, money, excitement or danger, intellectual stimulation or physical pleasure. The list is a very long one indeed. The dynamics of the meeting of any two people are unique, never the same. Then, is the purpose of relating with another solely for gain?
Yes! The answer to the question “Why do relationships exist?” is that they do so solely for gain. But, and this is a very important “but”, they do not exist solely for our selfish gain, quite the contrary. Relationships are not strengthened by more money, control or time. They are not even justified by increasing the intensity of love between two people. Tolle hit it right on the button when he said, “A relationship is to make you aware—not happy.” Relationships exist for the sole purpose of waking us up, a chance for “me” to become aware of “I”. They force us to become aware of Eufeeling.
If you are looking for a relationship to make you happy or safe or experience love more deeply, forget it. While you may experience these things intermittently and for brief interludes, you will never be able to own them. At the end of a relationship you can look back and see the times you were happy or feeling love. But if you are honest with yourself you will realize that most of your time in the relationship was spent in your mind. Solely from the vantage point of your mind, you massaged and manipulated your partner to get what you felt you needed. They were doing the same. Because neither “me” was aware of the universality of their own inner essence they could not recognize universality of their partner.
Asking “why” you behave in a certain way will only lead to more “whys.” Answering “why” will have you chasing your tail. You will think you are getting somewhere but in the end you will have only exhausted yourself, or at the very least become quite dizzy. Even if you catch your tail, what have you caught? The tail is attached to the dog, which is attached to the tail…Neither chasing nor catching your problems will end them. Nor will you find the ultimate solution. Finding out why you behave a certain way only encourages you to delve more deeply into your difficulties. Remember, your problems are not the problem. Your suffering will not end by changing your behavior. Your behavior will change by ending your suffering.
When something goes wrong it shakes us awake. As soon as we wake up to the fact that something is wrong we try to fix it. The waking-up part is good. The fixing part is misguided. It is misguided because one-and-a-half thoughts after we wake up our memory kicks in and we slip back into common consciousness. That’s right we wake up, fluff our pillow a couple of times, roll over and fall back asleep. Warm and cozy, we dream a wonderful dream, that the two “railway lines” will one day meet not on the horizon, but at our very feet.
[Continued next week - How Does Perception Affect Your Relationship? (Part VI)]